{"id":7932,"date":"2025-08-16T13:11:38","date_gmt":"2025-08-16T10:11:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/berru.org\/?p=7932"},"modified":"2025-08-16T13:11:38","modified_gmt":"2025-08-16T10:11:38","slug":"kim-olacagimiza-karar-verme-zamani","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/berru.org\/index.php\/2025\/08\/16\/kim-olacagimiza-karar-verme-zamani\/","title":{"rendered":"Kim Olaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131za Karar Verme Zaman\u0131"},"content":{"rendered":"<p data-start=\"292\" data-end=\"616\"><strong>\u00dcniversite kazanan gen\u00e7lerin, \u00f6zelde gen\u00e7 kad\u0131nlar\u0131n \u00e7o\u011fu, yeni bir ya\u015fam\u0131n hayalini kurarken &#8220;Neye maruz kalaca\u011f\u0131m?&#8221; sorusuyla m\u00fccadele ediyor. Bu ba\u015fl\u0131 ba\u015f\u0131na politik bir durum. \u00d6rg\u00fctlenmedi\u011fimiz m\u00fcddet\u00e7e, sistem bizi s\u00f6m\u00fcrmeye devam edecek.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p data-start=\"292\" data-end=\"616\">Her y\u0131l oldu\u011fu gibi bu y\u0131l da milyonlarca gen\u00e7, tercih listesini yaparken ya\u015fayabilece\u011fi en az zorluklarla ge\u00e7ecek birka\u00e7 y\u0131l\u0131 da se\u00e7meye \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Ve bu s\u00fcre\u00e7, her gencin g\u00f6z\u00fcnde bir s\u0131ralamadan \u00f6te; b\u00fcy\u00fck bir bunal\u0131m\u0131n ve belirsizli\u011fin ta kendisiydi.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"618\" data-end=\"1270\">Ben de bu s\u00fcre\u00e7ten ge\u00e7en gen\u00e7lerden biriyim. Lise bitti. Herkesin &#8220;en g\u00fczel ya\u015flar\u0131n\u0131z&#8221; dedi\u011fi d\u00f6nemde, belki de en \u00e7ok kayg\u0131land\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z, en \u00e7ok y\u00f6ns\u00fcz hissetti\u011fimiz zamanlardayd\u0131k. Bir tercih yaparken sadece &#8220;hangi mesle\u011fi isterim?&#8221; de\u011fil; &#8220;hangi \u015fehre ailem g\u00f6nderir?&#8221;, &#8220;yurt \u00e7\u0131kar m\u0131?&#8221;, &#8220;okurken bir i\u015fte \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmam gerekecek mi?&#8221; gibi sorular vard\u0131 kafam\u0131zda. \u00d6zellikle biz gen\u00e7 kad\u0131nlarda bu kayg\u0131lar ikiye, \u00fc\u00e7e katland\u0131. Biz gen\u00e7 kad\u0131nlar, bu tercih s\u00fcrecini bir \u00f6z savunma bi\u00e7imi olarak ya\u015f\u0131yoruz. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc her ad\u0131mda, her tercihte kendimizi korumak zorunday\u0131z. Ve bu bize \u00f6\u011fretilmedi; biz buna mecbur b\u0131rak\u0131ld\u0131k.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1272\" data-end=\"1668\">Gen\u00e7 kad\u0131nlar ve gen\u00e7ler olarak \u00f6nce birbirimizi, yaln\u0131z olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 bilerek g\u00fc\u00e7lendirmeliyiz. Herkes tercihlerini yapt\u0131 ve bitti gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcnse de, bir\u00e7o\u011fumuz h\u00e2l\u00e2 sorguluyor, endi\u015fe ediyor, ne yapaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilmiyor. Bu y\u00fczden dayan\u0131\u015fma en g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc anahtar\u0131m\u0131z. Okumaya ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda ya da h\u00e2l\u00e2 bekleme halindeysek, \u00e7evremizdeki arkada\u015flarla kolektif bir bilin\u00e7 olu\u015fturarak yol alabiliriz.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1670\" data-end=\"1990\">Sadece \u00fcniversiteye de\u011fil, ki\u015fisel geli\u015fimimize, \u00f6zg\u00fcvenimize, sorgulay\u0131c\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceye odaklanmal\u0131y\u0131z. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bu sistem bizi haz\u0131r kal\u0131plara sokmak istiyor. Oysa biz o kal\u0131plar\u0131 k\u0131rabiliriz. \u0130stedi\u011fimiz b\u00f6l\u00fcme yerle\u015fmediysek bile bu her \u015feyin sonu de\u011fil. Belki de ba\u015fka bir yol, tam da bize ait olan bir yol \u015fimdi a\u00e7\u0131lacak.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1992\" data-end=\"2532\">Bu y\u0131l s\u0131ralamalarda ya\u015fanan y\u0131\u011f\u0131lmalar s\u00fcreci daha da zorla\u015ft\u0131rd\u0131. Binlerce ki\u015fi hak etti\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc b\u00f6l\u00fcmlere giremedi. S\u0131nav\u0131n zorluk derecesi, baraj\u0131n kalkm\u0131\u015f olmas\u0131, mezun say\u0131s\u0131ndaki art\u0131\u015f gibi nedenlerle herkes daha stresliydi. Tabii bu, gen\u00e7 kad\u0131nlar i\u00e7in daha katmanl\u0131 bir s\u00fcre\u00e7ti. Geleceksizlik hissiyle ba\u015f etmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rken, tercihlerini yaparken yaln\u0131zca meslek de\u011fil; g\u00fcvenlik, \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck, aile bask\u0131s\u0131 gibi bir\u00e7ok dinamikle y\u00fczle\u015ftiler. Tercihler, ki\u015finin ne olmak istedi\u011fini de\u011fil, neye mecbur kald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6steriyor art\u0131k.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2534\" data-end=\"3090\">Gen\u00e7 kad\u0131nlar olarak bu s\u00fcre\u00e7te hissettiklerimiz, sadece gelece\u011fimize ait bir karar de\u011fil; ayn\u0131 zamanda bug\u00fcn neye mecbur b\u0131rak\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zla ilgili. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc sistem kad\u0131nlara bir gelecek vadetmiyor, \u00f6n\u00fcne ne geldiyse raz\u0131 ol diyor. \u00d6rne\u011fin, bir b\u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fc sevdin ama o ortam seni korkutuyorsa, gece yurttan ya da evden \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda kendini g\u00fcvende hissetmiyorsan, aile bask\u0131s\u0131yla kar\u015f\u0131la\u015f\u0131yorsan; i\u015fte o zaman asl\u0131nda sen de\u011fil, toplum tercih ediyor senin yerine.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3092\" data-end=\"3551\">Kad\u0131nlar i\u00e7in \u00fcniversite bir e\u011fitim yeri oldu\u011fu kadar; ayn\u0131 zamanda bir \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck olana\u011f\u0131 sunuyor. Ama bu \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck olana\u011f\u0131 s\u00fcrekli bast\u0131r\u0131lmak isteniyor. Gen\u00e7 kad\u0131nlar aileye ra\u011fmen, \u015fehre ra\u011fmen, erkek \u015fiddetine ra\u011fmen h\u00e2l\u00e2 kendini koruyor. \u00dcniversite kazanan gen\u00e7lerin, \u00f6zelde gen\u00e7 kad\u0131nlar\u0131n \u00e7o\u011fu, asl\u0131nda yeni bir ya\u015fam\u0131n hayalini kurarken &#8220;Neye maruz kalaca\u011f\u0131m?&#8221; sorusuyla m\u00fccadele ediyor. Bu ba\u015fl\u0131 ba\u015f\u0131na politik bir durum. \u00d6rg\u00fctlenmedi\u011fimiz m\u00fcddet\u00e7e, sistem bizi s\u00f6m\u00fcrmeye devam edecek.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3553\" data-end=\"3924\">Yani as\u0131l mesele, \u00fcniversiteye girmek de\u011fil; nas\u0131l bir hayat ya\u015famak istedi\u011fimizdir. E\u011fitim ara\u00e7 olmal\u0131, ama\u00e7 de\u011fil. T\u00fcm bu ya\u015fananlar g\u00f6sterdi ki mesele sadece bir tercih yapmak de\u011fil; kim oldu\u011fumuzu, ne istedi\u011fimizi, neye kar\u015f\u0131 durdu\u011fumuzu anlamakt\u0131 asl\u0131nda. Kayg\u0131lar, belirsizlikler ve e\u015fitsizlikler aras\u0131nda yol almaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rken, kendimize dair \u00e7ok \u015fey fark ettik.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3926\" data-end=\"4402\">\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bu s\u00fcre\u00e7, ayn\u0131 zamanda benli\u011fimizle y\u00fczle\u015fme, kararlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n sorumlulu\u011funu alma, sessizce b\u00fcy\u00fcyen bir ayd\u0131n gen\u00e7lik ruhudur. Sistem bizi k\u00f6\u015feye s\u0131k\u0131\u015ft\u0131rm\u0131\u015f olabilir, belki gelecek h\u00e2l\u00e2 bulan\u0131k; ama bu s\u00fcre\u00e7ten ge\u00e7mi\u015f her gen\u00e7, \u00f6zellikle de her gen\u00e7 kad\u0131n, art\u0131k daha diren\u00e7li, daha bilin\u00e7li ve daha dayan\u0131\u015fmac\u0131. Tekrar vurgulamal\u0131 ki, mesele bir \u00fcniversite s\u0131ras\u0131ndan \u00f6te; kim oldu\u011fumuzu unutmadan, birlikte kim olaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131za karar verme zaman\u0131.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4404\" data-end=\"4417\"><em data-start=\"4404\" data-end=\"4417\">\u00a0 \u00a0 <strong>\u00a0Esma Kaya<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00dcniversite kazanan gen\u00e7lerin, \u00f6zelde gen\u00e7 kad\u0131nlar\u0131n \u00e7o\u011fu, yeni bir ya\u015fam\u0131n hayalini kurarken &#8220;Neye maruz kalaca\u011f\u0131m?&#8221; sorusuyla m\u00fccadele ediyor. Bu ba\u015fl\u0131 ba\u015f\u0131na politik bir durum. \u00d6rg\u00fctlenmedi\u011fimiz m\u00fcddet\u00e7e, sistem bizi s\u00f6m\u00fcrmeye devam edecek. Her y\u0131l oldu\u011fu gibi bu y\u0131l da milyonlarca gen\u00e7, tercih listesini yaparken ya\u015fayabilece\u011fi en az zorluklarla ge\u00e7ecek birka\u00e7 y\u0131l\u0131 da se\u00e7meye \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131. 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