{"id":7784,"date":"2025-08-03T11:51:36","date_gmt":"2025-08-03T08:51:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/berru.org\/?p=7784"},"modified":"2025-08-03T11:56:24","modified_gmt":"2025-08-03T08:56:24","slug":"yasanan-bir-kadin-kirimidir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/berru.org\/index.php\/2025\/08\/03\/yasanan-bir-kadin-kirimidir\/","title":{"rendered":"Ya\u015fanan Kad\u0131n K\u0131r\u0131m\u0131d\u0131r"},"content":{"rendered":"

HABER MERKEZ\u0130<\/strong>– Kad\u0131n Zaman\u0131 Derne\u011fi Ba\u015fkan\u0131 Dilek Ba\u015falan, artan kad\u0131n cinayetlerinin sistematik bir kad\u0131n k\u0131r\u0131m\u0131na d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc vurgulayarak, Kendini ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftiren kad\u0131na topyek\u00fbn bir sald\u0131r\u0131 oldu\u011funu belirtti.<\/p>\n

T\u00fcrkiye\u2019de her g\u00fcn birden fazla kad\u0131n cinayeti ya\u015fan\u0131yor. Bu durumun art\u0131k tekil olaylarla a\u00e7\u0131klanamayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131, ortada sistemli bir \u201ckad\u0131n k\u0131r\u0131m\u0131\u201d oldu\u011funu belirten Kad\u0131n Zaman\u0131 Derne\u011fi Ba\u015fkan\u0131 Dilek Ba\u015falan, \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcn \u00f6z savunmadan, zihinsel d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcmden ve toplumsal in\u015fadan ge\u00e7ti\u011fini vurgulad\u0131.<\/p>\n

Kad\u0131nlara y\u00f6nelik \u015fiddetin medyaya yans\u0131ma bi\u00e7iminin dahi deh\u015fet verici oldu\u011funu ifade eden Ba\u015falan, \u015f\u00f6yle konu\u015ftu:<\/p>\n

\u201cKad\u0131n hareketinde m\u00fccadele eden birisi olarak son y\u0131llarda ve son g\u00fcnlerde gittik\u00e7e artan ve asl\u0131nda medyaya yans\u0131ma bi\u00e7iminin de \u00e7ok deh\u015fet verici oldu\u011fu bir kad\u0131n k\u0131r\u0131m\u0131 ile kar\u015f\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131yay\u0131z. Kad\u0131n k\u0131r\u0131m\u0131 \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc her g\u00fcn neredeyse d\u00f6rt kad\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u00fcld\u00fc\u011f\u00fc, yaraland\u0131\u011f\u0131, istismar edildi\u011fi, tecav\u00fcze maruz b\u0131rak\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir sistemi sadece \u2018bir kad\u0131n \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u00fcld\u00fc\u2019 ve \u2018bir kad\u0131n tacize u\u011frad\u0131\u2019 diye dile getiremeyiz. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ya\u015fanan bir kad\u0131n k\u0131r\u0131m\u0131d\u0131r.\u201d<\/p>\n

Katledilen Kad\u0131nlar\u0131n Hikayeleri Benzer<\/strong><\/p>\n

Kad\u0131nlar\u0131n her alanda yok say\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ve s\u00f6z s\u00f6yledi\u011finde aforoz edildi\u011fini belirten Ba\u015falan, \u0130stanbul\u2019da ya da Amed’te ya\u015fanan kad\u0131n cinayetlerinin benzer toplumsal nedenlere dayand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yledi:<\/p>\n

\u201cDirekt kad\u0131n\u0131n kimli\u011fine, varl\u0131\u011f\u0131na kendini ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirme haline bir sald\u0131r\u0131 var. O y\u00fczden bu kad\u0131n k\u0131r\u0131m\u0131 ile nas\u0131l m\u00fccadele edebiliriz? Bu kad\u0131n k\u0131r\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 en net \u015fekilde nas\u0131l ifade edebilir\u00a0 ve m\u00fccadele y\u00f6ntemlerini birlikte nas\u0131l \u00f6rebiliriz? Biraz asl\u0131nda bunu dile getirmek gerekiyor, bu say\u0131sal verilerle ya da \u015fehir bazl\u0131 farkl\u0131l\u0131klarla anlat\u0131labilecek bir \u015fey de\u011fil. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc Diyarbak\u0131r’da katledilen bir kad\u0131nla \u0130stanbul’da katledilen bir kad\u0131n\u0131n hikayeleri \u00e7ok benzer\u201d<\/p>\n

Kad\u0131nlar En \u00c7ok Ailede Katlediliyor<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u0130ktidar\u0131n ilan etti\u011fi \u201caile y\u0131l\u0131\u201dna da dikkat \u00e7eken Ba\u015falan, bu s\u00fcre\u00e7te artan kad\u0131n cinayetlerinin rastlant\u0131 olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 dile getirdi:<\/p>\n

\u201cBiz son y\u0131llarda \u00f6zellikle bir hakikati dile getirmek istiyoruz. Erkek egemen sistem bizim \u00f6n\u00fcm\u00fcze bir aile y\u0131l\u0131 getirdi. Aile y\u0131l\u0131 i\u00e7erisinde katledilen, kaybedilen kad\u0131nlar\u0131n, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n ak\u0131betini daha a\u00e7\u0131k ve net bir \u015fekilde s\u00f6yleme ihtiyac\u0131n\u0131 hissediyoruz. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc denildi\u011fi g\u00fcnden itibaren say\u0131sal verilere bakmalar\u0131 gerekiyor. Bu kad\u0131nlar, bu \u00e7ocuklar nerede ve nas\u0131l katlediliyor?\u201d<\/p>\n

Kad\u0131n cinayetlerinin b\u00fcy\u00fck k\u0131sm\u0131n\u0131n aile i\u00e7inde ger\u00e7ekle\u015fti\u011fini, failin \u00e7o\u011fu zaman e\u015f, baba ya da erkek karde\u015f oldu\u011funu belirten Ba\u015falan, bu durumu \u015f\u00f6yle \u00f6zetledi:<\/p>\n

\u201cBir \u00fcniversite \u00f6\u011frencisi, tatilde ailesinin evine gitti\u011finde abisi taraf\u0131ndan \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u00fcl\u00fcyor. Bir kad\u0131n bo\u015fanmak istedi\u011fi erkek taraf\u0131ndan katlediliyor. Hamile kad\u0131nlar, asl\u0131nda iki ki\u015finin de katili olan erkekler taraf\u0131ndan \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u00fcl\u00fcyor. En \u00e7ok kad\u0131n aile dedi\u011fimiz yerde, aile reisi olarak g\u00f6r\u00fclen erkeklerin s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcn ge\u00e7ti\u011fi yap\u0131larda katlediliyor.\u201d<\/p>\n

En B\u00fcy\u00fck Hakikat Kad\u0131n\u0131n Kendini Ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirme Halidir<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00c7\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcn ise kad\u0131n\u0131n kendini ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirmesi ve \u00f6z savunmas\u0131n\u0131 in\u015fa etmesi oldu\u011funu vurgulayan Ba\u015falan, \u00f6z savunman\u0131n yaln\u0131zca fiziki bir \u015fey olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, zihinsel d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcmle ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 belirtti:<\/p>\n

\u201cBakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda kad\u0131nlar en \u00e7ok devletin en k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck birimi dedi\u011fimiz ailede, aile reisi olarak g\u00f6r\u00fclen erke\u011fin s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcn ge\u00e7ti\u011fi aile birimlerinde katlediliyor. En \u00e7ok kad\u0131nlar yok say\u0131l\u0131yor. O y\u00fczden biraz asl\u0131nda kad\u0131n k\u0131r\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 hem if\u015fa ederken hem kad\u0131n k\u0131r\u0131m\u0131 ile m\u00fccadele ederken biraz da aile \u00fczerinden \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 daha fazla artt\u0131rmak istiyoruz.<\/p>\n

En b\u00fcy\u00fck hakikat kad\u0131n\u0131n kendini ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirme halidir. \u015eiddete maruz kalmadan ba\u015f etme y\u00f6ntemlerinden bence en \u00f6nce kad\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6z savunmas\u0131n\u0131 ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirmesi geliyor. \u00d6z savunma nedir? Bu tamamen fiziki bir \u015fey de\u011fil. Kad\u0131n\u0131n zihinsel olarak de\u011fi\u015fti\u011fi, d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc\u011f\u00fc ve kendini ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirdi\u011fi haldir.\u201d<\/p>\n

Erkek \u015eiddetinden Ar\u0131nd\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131\u015f Bir Toplum M\u00fcmk\u00fcn<\/strong><\/p>\n

Toplumsal d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm\u00fcn mahalle mahalle, ev ev, okul okul \u00f6r\u00fclmesi gerekti\u011fini ifade eden Ba\u015falan, s\u00f6zlerini \u015f\u00f6yle tamamlad\u0131:<\/p>\n

\u201cToplumsal in\u015fa dedi\u011fimiz \u015fey de\u011fi\u015fim ve d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcmd\u00fcr. Kad\u0131n k\u0131r\u0131m\u0131yla ba\u015f etme y\u00f6ntemlerini mahalle mahalle, ev ev, sokak sokak gidip birbirimizi anlatarak ve deneyimlerimizi payla\u015farak birlikte in\u015fa etmeliyiz. B\u00f6ylece erkek \u015fiddetinden ar\u0131nd\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131\u015f bir toplumu m\u00fcmk\u00fcn k\u0131labiliriz.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

HABER MERKEZ\u0130– Kad\u0131n Zaman\u0131 Derne\u011fi Ba\u015fkan\u0131 Dilek Ba\u015falan, artan kad\u0131n cinayetlerinin sistematik bir kad\u0131n k\u0131r\u0131m\u0131na d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc vurgulayarak, Kendini ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftiren kad\u0131na topyek\u00fbn bir sald\u0131r\u0131 oldu\u011funu belirtti. T\u00fcrkiye\u2019de her g\u00fcn birden fazla kad\u0131n cinayeti ya\u015fan\u0131yor. Bu durumun art\u0131k tekil olaylarla a\u00e7\u0131klanamayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131, ortada sistemli bir \u201ckad\u0131n k\u0131r\u0131m\u0131\u201d oldu\u011funu belirten Kad\u0131n Zaman\u0131 Derne\u011fi Ba\u015fkan\u0131 Dilek Ba\u015falan, \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcn \u00f6z savunmadan, […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":7787,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"jnews-multi-image_gallery":[],"jnews_single_post":{"format":"standard","override":[{"template":"1","parallax":"1","fullscreen":"1","layout":"right-sidebar","sidebar":"default-sidebar","second_sidebar":"default-sidebar","sticky_sidebar":"1","share_position":"top","share_float_style":"share-monocrhome","show_featured":"1","show_post_meta":"1","show_post_author_image":"1","show_post_date":"1","post_date_format":"default","post_date_format_custom":"Y\/m\/d","show_post_category":"1","post_reading_time_wpm":"300","post_calculate_word_method":"str_word_count","zoom_button_out_step":"2","zoom_button_in_step":"3","show_post_tag":"1","show_prev_next_post":"1","show_popup_post":"1","number_popup_post":"1","show_author_box":"1","show_post_related":"0","show_inline_post_related":"0"}],"image_override":[{"single_post_thumbnail_size":"crop-500","single_post_gallery_size":"crop-500"}],"trending_post_position":"meta","trending_post_label":"Trending","sponsored_post_label":"Sponsored by","disable_ad":"0","subtitle":""},"jnews_primary_category":[],"jnews_social_meta":[],"jnews_review":[],"enable_review":"","type":"percentage","name":"","summary":"","brand":"","sku":"","good":[],"bad":[],"score_override":"","override_value":"","rating":[],"price":[],"jnews_override_counter":{"view_counter_number":"0","share_counter_number":"0","like_counter_number":"0","dislike_counter_number":"0"},"jnews_post_split":{"post_split":[{"template":"1","tag":"h2","numbering":"asc","mode":"normal","first":"0","enable_toc":"0","toc_type":"normal"}]},"footnotes":""},"categories":[51,47],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7784","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-guncel","category-roportaj"],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/berru.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/photo_2025-08-03_11-46-14.jpg","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/berru.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7784","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/berru.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/berru.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/berru.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/berru.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7784"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/berru.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7784\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7789,"href":"https:\/\/berru.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7784\/revisions\/7789"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/berru.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/7787"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/berru.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7784"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/berru.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7784"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/berru.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7784"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}